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EDUCATION
OF CLERGY FOR AND DURING RETIREMENT
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BASIC PRINCIPLES
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A priest as an ordained leader in the church never retires from his
priesthood but eventually must resign from responsibility for a parish or
other diocesan office.
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"Retirement" is about what I’m going to do, not
about what I’m not going to do". In other words,
"It’s not about what I have stopped being, but about what I hope to
grow to be."
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[1]
PRACTICAL PREPARATION FOR RETIREMENT
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encourage support groups for priests
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help develop a sense of cohesion with those of same age
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suggest easement into a second career without an executive
function, which can be continued and developed after retirement
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suggest a buffer stage between full active ministry and retirement
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seek ways to respond to priests preparing for retirement when they
want help
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encourage use of books, articles, videos and audio cassettes
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encourage hobbies and new skills
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encourage men to develop their resources, personal and material
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[2]
CONTINUING GROWTH IN RELATIONSHIPS
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encourage gently and discretely a companion for the journey, a
sponsor/carer
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raise the possibility of a spiritual and social companion who will
challenge them
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encourage the presence of women and children in older age to
develop respect and reverence and counter hardness and bitterness
developing
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foster "grandfather" experiences with children and young
adults
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visit retired priests – loneliness can be very painful
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encourage younger priests to visit older priests for a chat
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encourage older priests not to loose interest and to come to
priests’ gatherings
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provide opportunities for priests to get out of solitary places and
meet with others
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[3]
ONGOING SPIRITUAL GROWTH DURING RETIREMENT
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foster attention to spiritual growth, a time to be with the Lord
and with others
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underline retirement as a special time to develop one’s
relationship with God
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encourage deeper entry into the world of prayer
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encourage priests to have a vision for the future
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provide assistance in finding the meaning of "being"
rather than "doing"
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foster human and spiritual development through specially tailored
retreats for older priests
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provide formation/information on the spirituality of ageing, the
psychology of ageing and the physical changes of ageing
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help priests maintain respect and reverence for themselves in dress
and lifestyle
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[4]
ACTIVITIES/FACILITIES AVAILABLE DURING RETIREMENT
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create pastoral contacts for retired priests
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create opportunities to socialise and minister according to their
giftedness
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find a quasi-official way of regularly "mining their
wisdom"
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encourage use of senior citizen groups for learning better ways of
being human
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be aware of concerns in the old around "what will happen when
my health goes"
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make information available concerning social services available for
the elderly eg fare concessions, medical assistance, house keeping
assistance etc
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suggest the possibility of keeping a pet
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enlist help of a trained supervisor/case worker to oversee
retirement process
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offer helps to remain involved in life and guard against depression
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get someone to show the use of a personal computer for card games,
chess and other games, and for the internet packed with information and
world news
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Canberra,
22 April 1996
CONSULTATION
MEMBERS
Fr Tom Cruice CSsR
Retired Mayfield NSW
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Fr Tom Horgan Retired
Adelaide SA
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Fr John Reilly Director
ACCCEP Canberra ACT
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Fr John Ryan Centacare
Canberra ACT
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Fr Paul Ryan Parish Priest
Melbourne VIC
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Sr Mary D’Apice RSCJ, MB, BS, MA, MPS
Psychotherapist/Spiritual Director
Mosman NSW
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